Sunday, November 7, 2010

Sad Princess Story

It really is sad. I cried. Right along with her, because I knew she was so dissappointed. Here's the story of a truly Sad Princess.


This past Friday night, the night before the big birthday party that has been greatly anticipated by little Hailey, ended up being miserable. I heard Hailey come out of her room around 10pm and went upstairs to see if she needed anything. I found her using the bathroom and she was shaking uncontrollably. She said to me "I don't know what's happening".  I put her back to bed and told Nate she was asking for him. He laid down with her and quickly realized that she had a horrible fever. Horrible indeed.


We put her in our bed and kept her with us all night. As per the doctors request, we kept all our windows open and a fan blowing right in our direction to try to cool her down. Needless to say, it was FREEZING. And, it didn't really help much. She kept her temp at about 103.5 all night. The next morning, we went to the doctor, they checked her out and after running some tests, came to the conclusion it was just merely a viral infection that had to run its course. We knew right then, we had to cancel her birthday party.


She, however, did not know that. After getting her home and letting her take a nap, she woke up and asked if it was time to go to the Kangaroo Zoo yet and we had to tell her the bad news about her birthday. This is where the sadness comes in. While we were explaining to her that we had to cancel and why, all she did while laying in our bed was allow tears to run down her face. No tantrum, not fit, just tears. Then came the quivering chin. I left the room, it was so sad. Nate teared up knowing how disappointed she was.


We decided to have a little family party with grandparents for her instead and I went ahead and made her cake that she has been asking for. Her fever broke around 3pm and she has been fine ever since.



She wanted a princess party with a castle cake this year, so that's what she got, or was going to get, till we had to improvise. The good news is, we were able to reschedule with the Kangaroo Zoo, so she will be able to live her 4 year old dream after all.

Princess Castle Cake




Sad Little Hailey

this picture breaks my heart. She just looks like she's had such a rough day. Those big brown eyes just look so sad to me.

Plasma Car


Our present to Hailey this year. She's in love with this car. She takes Addy for rides all the time and they love it!


and of course, I had to take it for a spin...


then the girls had some fun playing in the castle I made for her party


Then of course, it wouldn't be complete without blowing out a candle.




Overall, she ended up having a good evening, but was still very disappointed about her party with her friends. 
We felt bad for family that traveled this weekend. Like my mother in law always says, "it is what it is".
After an emotional day, with highs and lows and lots of snuggling and worrying and busy cake making, we were tired. And very ready for bed.

Thanks to family and friends for being understanding and caring about the outcome of the weekend.

9 comments:

The Staheli's said...

Happy Birthday Princess Hailey! I'm so sorry things didn't work out as you had hoped and planned. But it looks like she enjoyed things as much as possible while sick. The cake is beautiful, Tiff! You always do such an amazing job with the parties. Wish we could have seen the birthday girl, but it just wasn't in the cards and that is A-OKAY. You'll have a blast at the Kangaroo Zoo! And I'm so so so glad she is feeling better! Love you guys!!

jandrach.blogspot.com said...

Such a sad story! How lucky for her to have family that cares so much to make it a special day. I'm sure some frozen yogurt will help ;). I've learned from the best, Uncle Marty says ice cream heals everything.

jandrach.blogspot.com said...

In fact, after my accident he told me to just relax and eat some ice cream and everything will be ok. And it was! Happy Birthday Hailey!

Yolanda Taylor said...

Happy Birthday to Hailey!!! Tiffany, you are the best mom!

Jess and Matt said...

Aw, it's so heartbreaking to have a little sickie! Poor girl! And what a rough night for you both. I am glad she is feeling better. Holy cow, that cake is amazing!! Looks like she had a nice birthday even though she was sick. I love the picture of you taking the plasma for a spin HaHa!!

Jamie said...

So sad! I'm glad she got her princess party and that she feels better. The cake is adorable and the castle is awesome.

Kris said...

So sad. I wanted to cry, too, just reading this! Can't wait to see a happy princess tomorrow! Adorable cake by the way!

Carmen said...

We were SO sad to hear how things turned out especially because it is heartbreaking for you guys too,but are so glad to see the pictures and see that things were still ok and she will love her kangaroo zoo party even if it's a few days late. She is a trooper. Happy Birthday Hailey dear. Love the car, I might have to try it out when we are home:)

Emily said...

I'm so sorry. It was so sad to read about Hailey but she has such a cool mom to pull it off and make her have fun anyways. You are amazing.